Dating: Let's Go Beyond Just Hey or What You Doing?!?

When it comes to flirting or connecting with someone you like, the usual greetings can feel a bit dull. Phrases like "Hey" or "What you doing?" often miss the mark. Why can't you say something new? You need to switch things up. I got some thoughts on what you try saying to level up the convo, ya'll too dry out here. Let's add some grease to your mind.

"What’s the most interesting thing you’ve learned this week?"

This question shows genuine interest in what they think. It encourages them to share something personal or intriguing. Make a person think and dig deep... For instance, if they mention learning about a culture or a scientific discovery, it opens the door to deeper discussions. You might find out they are fascinated by space, which can lead to a conversation about their favorite documentaries or books.

"If you could travel anywhere right now, where would you go?"

Travel often excites people. Tell them money wouldnt be an option, explore their wants and needs on this trip. Asking this not only reveals their dream destinations but also gives insights into their personality. For example, if they mention wanting to hike in the Andes versus lounging on a beach in Bali, it shows their sense of adventure. This can lead to sharing travel stories or even discussing your own experiences, like the time you explored the markets of Marrakech.

"What’s a movie or show you could watch over and over again?"

This phrase dives into their entertainment tastes, offering clues about their sense of humor and interests. Most people I meet like 90's movies and this convo gets a bit long. It tells you so much more about a person. If they say they love "The Office" i know they will understand all my jokes... or a classic like "Martin," it can have laughs or conversations about favorite scenes. You might also end up sharing laughs about that time you binge-watched a series in one weekend.

"What’s your go-to comfort food?"

Food is a topic that everyone enjoys discussing. Asking about their comfort food not only reveals their culinary favorites but can lead to enjoyable conversations about cooking techniques or favorite restaurants. There will always be somethings that people will eat that I will never try. If they mention mac and cheese, you might share your own recipe or discuss trying a local spot that serves a gourmet version. This could even lead to a fun cooking night together.

"What’s something you’ve always wanted to try but haven’t yet?"

This question encourages them to talk about their dreams and aspirations. It could prompt discussions about hobbies, travel adventures, or wish-list experiences. this is a good experience question... For example, if they say they want to learn to play spades, you can share your own experience with attempting a new skill and the excitement of conquering it together.

"If you could have dinner with any three people, dead or alive, who would they be?"

This classic question helps you explore their interests and values, revealing who they admire. If they mention figures like Nelson Mandela or Beyoncé, it can lead to discussions about why these individuals inspire them. Best to find out whats important to them you can share your own choices and debate which historical figures would make the most interesting dinner guests.

Wrapping It Up

By stepping beyond typical greetings, you can greatly enhance your conversations with someone you like. These six chill phrases create opportunities for more engaging dialogues that showcase your genuine curiosity. Remember, the real key to impressing someone lies not just in what you say but in how you actively listen and respond.

The next time you reach for a simple "Hey," consider using one of these phrases instead. You might find the conversation flows more smoothly, allowing both of you to connect on a deeper level. Say something fresh most people stop talking to you because you be boring.